Hair appropriation from nonblack people makes me a special kind of mad, shit makes me TIGHT, because it’s bad enough having to walk around with people being just disrespectful to black people on the DAILY but we can’t even have our hairstyles which are specifically MADE for OUR HAIR. And it’s so much history behind it, like there were enslaved black women who covered their hair with scarves because it was seen as a source of shame, because they were divorced from their culture and in a land with no access to hair care tools. I can remember the day my mom put in a relaxer in my hair for the first time, I was like 4, I have distinct memories (multiple memories) of crying because it was burning and I just wanted her to wash it out. I didn’t even know being natural was an option until I was 14 and my mom wouldn’t even let me do it at first because she said I wouldn’t take care of it, and you know what she was right I didn’t I maybe only learned how to take care of it decently 3 or 4 years later. I actually relaxed it again when i was 15 for a while because I was struggling. And I love seeing black people having pride in their hair from people with short hair cuts to high top fades to braids to locs to short fros to anything because it takes a lot to learn to work with natural hair and love it ESPECIALLY if you have type 4 hair. And what’s worse is people being like ‘Well Indians had dreadlocks and celts and etc too’, like SHUT THE FUCK UP, because 1) Do you belong to either of those SPECIFIC ETHNIC groups? Who very much admit THAT IT’S NOT THE SAME THING?? 2) Or do you just like bothering black people online *snaps fingers* quickly please. It’s even more frustrating because Black People do anything appropriative or step one toe out of line and here people COME ready to knock them down THREE FEET and be racist as all hell like just say you hate Niggas and GO, please save me the time. Like, it’s very clear so many people wanna use black people and black culture to be cool but don’t give a damn about black people and I’m sick of it, I BEEN SICK OF IT.
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